Ever looked at someone and all you can see is their faults and all you see is how different and off they are to you ? Well sometimes it happens and it depends with your ability to explore beyond the first impression you get of them .Some can actually brush it off to while for some it lasts them almost a lifetime to overcome that first image formed in your mind when you first met a particular person.
So recently I just realized how much faults we have as individuals the many shameful acts we have done out of sight and those many bad thoughts we might have had about others.Well we may not know how much it affects how much it affects how we relate with these individuals who at some point we might have down looked.
The same way you meet someone and all you want is to be part of their lives and wish of only they’d Create time and space then I’d be the happiest girl or man on earth ☺️you feel like you want to be noticed by them all the time and you’d do anything for them .
But the fact is some of the places we felt we belong to we don’t ,while ,some of the doors open are not for us to enter through the same way some of these people we shut out might be our destiny helpers people strategically positioned to impact your life .
Then something else is if you ever feel better than a Person (well yeah sometimes it’s a fact ) know that pride is kicking in and you need to check your self out and get back to the drawing board.
Am also learning on cheering on others well yeah some of them don’t deserve it but they do you actually get better in doing stuff in life as you begin to view life in a more positive and beautiful way.
When you see faults in others try to help if you can’t then maybe you need to change the way you see things and start to see the other side of things and appreciate the positive in them .
You never know kindness goes a long way !
SYLVIAH'S HAVEN 💯 